Confidence is the major factor when giving a good first impression to a first date. Relationships, thus, depend on one’s ability to be confident in his or her abilities and actions. But confidence isn’t something that befalls everyone- indeed, it can be a hard characteristic to obtain.

Lack of confidence usually stems from a poor self image. Thus, one should always strive to maintain a very positive self image of their personality and physical appearance. This is most commonly done by becoming adept in having good hygiene, staying on top of trends, and overall knowing how to talk to the opposite gender without becoming too nervous or shy.

A good way to exert confidence in a relationship is to be three things: outgoing, talkative, and carefree. All three characteristics will give off the impression that you are confident- when in fact you might not be. Of course, being talkative and outgoing can be tough for someone new to the confidence game. If nothing else, one can always be carefree- just relax on your date, there are plenty of options should one date not work out!

A common trait that is misconstrued as confidence is arrogance. It is very important not to mix these two characteristics of personality, as arrogance can indeed give a very bad impression. Being confident is one thing- but being confident also means being refined and sophisticated. Arrogance usually shows the opposite gender that you are narcissistic or egotistical- and no one wants to date someone with these traits.

Another big confidence killer is one’s living arrangements. It’s common for one’s house to have pets, which can cause foul odor. Others may live with their parents even after graduating college or highschool, which can be equally as embarrassing. Whatever the scenario, it’s important to agree with the idea that if the date really is for you, they would understand your shortcomings without question.

Confidence also can be created by going on a date doing something that you have done before. All too often, the first date is a new experience for those who lack confidence. If you happen to go to a new restaurant and order something you don’t like, it may give the wrong impression to your date- who may think you are too picky or unwilling to try new things.

Most importantly, one should note that it is not always a bad sign that the date you were hoping to impress didn’t turn out to show the same feelings. In many cases, this is just another chance to start over with someone completely new. And as dating goes, the learning experience will only give you better odds next time around.

Above all else, always try to have fun on the first date, and any dates following should you leave a good impression. Always try to exert confidence- even if you have to fake it. As you become more experienced in the matter, confidence will come naturally- all you need is the time and experience in which to find it.